How to attract her
Posted: Saturday, May 22, 2010
by Janka Bond
http://www.thingstodosandiego.blogspot.com
Simple steps to get noticed
Your appearance
While looks usually only play a small part (more initially than later) when it comes to attracting women, there is something every man can do to increase his chances of success. Let’s start with pointing out that whatever body shape, height, skin color or hair color you have is irrelevant when it comes to attracting women. Attractiveness is a very subjective matter and what one finds highly appealing about someone’s looks, another might not even notice. While investing a reasonable effort into your appearance is definitely recommended, it is well known that women don’t put as much emphasis on physical attributes as men. However, we all know they do pay attention to certain details about a man such as clean fingernails, trimmed hair and fresh breath. Taking care of your appearance is the first small component in a complex equation when it comes to figuring out how to attract her.
We all know “attractive" is meant in much broader terms than what one looks like. When it we interact with others, and I don’t mean necessarily just the opposite sex, our general attitudes towards ourselves and our surroundings can be easily sensed, based on our choice of words, facial expression and body language. It’s been said many times that women have a very well developed intuition and they comfortably rely on their “six sense" when it comes to making decision. The same applies when it comes to getting attracted to a man. A confident man whose general outlook on life is positive and who displays respect and consideration for others will be seen as attractive.
Your manners
We know how important emancipation and independency are to women in this day and age. They pursue their careers, buy their condos, achieve their goals and dreams and thoroughly enjoy their self-sufficiency. But I have yet to meet a woman who wouldn’t appreciate an act of chivalry from a man. A woman who would not be thankful for being treated like a lady. Whether it’s opening the door, or offering to help her carry a seemingly heavy bag. The best way to catch a woman’s attention is to act like a gentleman. More than anything, a woman appreciates men who are considerate, thoughtful and allow her to feel like the precious flower she is.
Genuine compliment
Regardless of whether a woman gets regular compliments on her looks, certain attributes or skills or she is more on the reserved side, you can never go wrong with a flattering remark, as long as it’s genuine. The worst kind of compliment is one that appears to be generic and could be used on anyone, without paying attention to the particular woman. A sincere compliment geared towards a feature or attribute that is unique to her will make any woman feel special. That will, in turn, get you noticed. Then it’s up to you to take advantage of it and see whether your initial interaction could lead to something more.
This Article has been viewed 152 times. (Not updated in real-time.)
Top-level comments on this article: (1 total)I agree with you about men's appearance. A man who dresses with care and looks after himself is definitely giving himself a better chance!
We want your comments! If you can read this, you don't have javascript enabled, so you can't use this comment system. Please enable javascript.